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Because of this we tend to have a limited comprehension of what's happened to us

Because of this we tend to have a limited comprehension of what's happened to us and are unlikely to be able to interpret what has happened to us with clarity which leads us to look for a possible enemy to blame for hurting us. If we are suffering then some one must be responsible. When we blame others we gain a sense of relief from the pain and a strong feeling of satisfaction and revenge from passing the blame to some one else. Revealed in a psychic reading. We have been the judge, jury and are now the administrator of punishment. The down side to responding in this way is that when the dust and anger has settle their may be a clearing of insight. And an awareness of the root problem which may not be the first answer that so quickly sprung to mind. If the real reason for the problem is not clear then there is the likelihood that the lesson will not be learnt and the pattern will be repeated. Problems are likely to be compiled if blame is directly aimed at partners, spouses, friends, colleagues and family members. Blaming can come in two different ways, the first is that of always blaming others for our mistakes. This puts us in the role of victim and 'poor me' which distracts us from ever taking responsibility for our actions. The other is when we turn the blame inwards and haunt ourselves with never ending guilt and remorse...... Next Page