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Control in a relationship indicates fear and a lack of confidence in ourselves

Control in a relationship indicates fear and a lack of confidence in ourselves, it demands that things are done a certain way by the person controlling. Its an attempt to keep ourselves safe and belief that we are keeping others safe in our particular way. Revealed in a psychic reading. If we were hurt in the past we make up rules for ourselves and others on how not to get hurt again. People who a need to control there lives and the lives of others often lead to power struggles with those around them who want to do things their way. However, the struggle that ensues with others to control a situation and events brings about the very pain and anxiety that it was designed to stop. Creating an environment of control can create safety for our partners but can leave no room for opposing opinions and can become boring and repetitive and limiting communication. Control robs us of enjoyment and of the capacity to receive, it keeps us locked in isolation and disassociation and puts us out of touch with our inner guidance. A controlling relationship is one of abuse where a partner dominates the other in an unhealthy way that makes a partner feel intimidated, insecure, or guilty....... Next Page