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There are times in our lives when we all have experienced disillusionment

There are times in our lives when we all have experienced disillusionment. It's a time when we get a feeling of disappointment after discovering something or some one that we thought was of value to us is not as good as we believed. Experiencing disillusionment can be painful and disappointing in particular if it was a romantic expectation that was shattered and crushed. When we put our full trust and open heart into something we believe totally and utterly in it. It becomes part of us and when we loose it it feels as if part of was lost too. We loose our trust and faith in people and in life and often choose to withdraw from life. Disillusionment is part of life and part of learning about what is true and good for us and what is not. Sometimes the early signs are clear, and we abandon the path or we choose to allow ourselves to follow it in full knowledge of the consequences. At other times we are deceived into making a choice either by some ones untruthfulness or by our own self-deception. Once we realise that we have been disillusioned it is important to quickly let go of the disappointment and pain associated with it, because it was an illusion. The lesson to learn from this is to build your hopes and dreams on a more solid foundation....... Next Page