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In an extreme attempt for neediness

In an extreme attempt for neediness a partner may revert to constantly questioning a partner about where they've been and who they've spoken to. They may need constant assurance about a partner’s commitment and need to know who they communicate with by phone or social media. We may have learnt this behaviour from our childhood when it served us to be dependant on our mothers affection and protection. Revealed in a psychic reading. When we feel vulnerable and insecure, we often overcompensate either by trying our best to please in an attempt to harbour comfort and attention or the opposite in which we appear strong and independent. Relationships provide support, comfort and protection from the outside world but when we allow it to be in excess it begins to transform into neediness and we have to be able to discern where our normal relationship needs end and clingy behaviour begins. We all need to be able to lean on some one from time to time, it makes them feel special being able to help and support us. But we also need to know the difference between acceptable neediness and none acceptable neediness. It's OK to be needy from time to time as long as it doesn't lead to excessive dependency where a partner may begin to feel smothered, stressed and feel like they are loosing their own identity.... Next Page