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Feelings of excessive responsibility border on guilt

Feelings of excessive responsibility border on guilt which is a way of controlling one an other. You may be feeling guilty for something that you said or have done, it may have been hurtful to some one or caused them to feel bad about themselves. It's important to be able to separate out the things that your responsible for and the things that your not. Revealed in a psychic reading. The way some one feels or responds is not your responsibility, the responsibility belongs to them. You may believe deep down that good people have to face consequences, you may also believe that by thinking your responsible for others and how they feel devoid's you of having to take responsibility for yourself. Guilt is not part of responsibility, it is an emotion that has been created to control one an other, it is a distortion of responsibility. Feelings of guilt and the belief that you have done something wrong or that you will do something wrong saps a person of joy in life. It creates self-doubt, low self-esteem unnecessary worry, anxiety and can lead to feelings of shame. You may have got yourself into a state and convinced yourself that something is all your fault. Thoughts and feelings of guilt are of no benefit to any one and can be removed by accepting a healthy balanced responsibility and of acknowledging the part that you played in the situation. Next, express unconditional forgiveness to both yourself and to others. Finally let it go, there's no value for you or any one else in holding onto it and punishing yourself..... Next Page