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Some people act as rescuers in a relationship

Some people act as rescuers in a relationship. They feel a strong desire to take care of others as a way of sustaining their self worth, they believe that by saving others they will feel needed. They over compensate by taking on tasks that they think will be helpful to their partner, they believe that their partner needs to be happy and they go out of their way to provide whatever they think will make the partner happy. Revealed in a psychic reading. The person with the need to provide happiness may have not been taken care of sufficiently when they where a child, or, a parent or sibling handed over the decision making to them at an early age. A rescuer is someone who loves to help other people. They are keen to take on the responsibilities, burdens, and problems of other people, often they concern themselves with other people’s lives, problems, and decisions, more than their own. On one level it looks as if they are saints or angels in disguise, but on an other level they depend on others needing their help and often encourage others to depend on them in order to fill their desire to be needed so that they can build a strong sense of themselves. To some extent we are all caught up in feeling responsible for each other’s happiness but its when it becomes extreme that it becomes problem...... Next Page