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We may on occasions feel good about ourselves

We may on occasions feel good about ourselves following the purchase of a fancy new car, holiday or attractive clothing. But this is often short lived and feels elusive and difficult to hold onto as it can just as equally take a dive when something dents our pride or when our purchases begin to tarnish or our youthful looks begin to fade or we stop receiving approval from others. Revealed in a psychic reading. When we seek to build our self esteem by outward values we are more likely to have destructive thoughts towards ourselves and others, we are likely to attract feelings of anger, stress, work problems and conflicts in our relationships when we don't live up to ours or other peoples expectations. Which can often lead to alcohol, drug use or eating problems as a way of masking the painful feelings. There are many ways for a person to value themselves and assess their worth, the simplest is by stopping comparing ourselves with others and just be ourselves, by recognising the unique qualities that make us us we begin to stop listening to the voice of criticism that continually dis-evaluates our every thought and move. We begin to stop criticising others too which helps to build stronger more deeper relationships. We begin to see ourselves for who we really are, rather than taking on a negative point of view about ourselves. We learn to separate the things we learnt as children and from our parents and start to understand and appreciating our own desires, thoughts, feelings, values...... Next Page