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We all surround ourselves with a set of rules

We all surround ourselves with a set of rules and limits which we don't allow others to cross. These are called boundaries which provide us with a container that we fill with who we are, our personality and sense of self. Personal boundaries are vital as they support our well being just like our immune system protects our physical body. Revealed in a psychic reading. Without having strong boundaries people are more likely to take advantage of our emotions for their own gain. Having healthy personal boundaries means taking responsibility for our own actions and emotions, while not feeling like we need to take responsibility for the actions or emotions of others. We’ve been taught from a young age to put the feelings of others ahead of our own needs. But as adults we need our boundaries in place to sustain our identity other wise we become vulnerable and dependant on others for our safety like children having to adapt themselves to make others comfortable. If we don't keep our boundaries in tact we are constantly open to pleasing others at the expense of ourselves. We neglect to state our needs out of fear of causing conflict and get too involved with pleasing others. On the other hand setting too rigid boundaries, especially within a relationship is liable to keep others at a distance...... Next Page