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We often talk more about what we don't want

We often talk more about what we don't want rather than we do want, identified in a psychic reading. A psychic reading predicts. It's easy to fall into the trap of being critical of some one else and saying things like, "turn that horrid music down I'm trying to consentrate", this can be changed to "I need you to turn your music down as I have a busy schedule to plan". There's a deep misunderstanding by people who believe that expressing and communicating there needs is selfish and self -centred. We have been trained by our parents, religion and society in general that considering the other person’s feelings first and always putting their needs ahead of our own showed that we cared. It's been drummed into us about the act self sacrifice for the sake of others is paramount and that our needs are of little consequence and stem from selfishness. After all there are many people less fortunate than us and we have no right to be needy in a world of want. In truth, communicating your needs is one of the most important ways to care for yourself your marriage, family. Having high expectations of people in a relationship and expecting them to be mind readers and some how sense your needs without you verbally expressing them will just bring hardship, conflict and difficulties into the relationship..… Next Page